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basic preferences.

Freddie is bisexual and sexually promiscuous with an active dating life; he's not looking to be in a relationship (to say the least) or form any romantic attachments, no matter how much he may unconsciously yearn for it. He won't go younger than 25 or older than about 50, but he'll chat and socialize platonically with anyone. I'm not interested in shipping or smut with characters under 25, aged up characters, or characters with icons of them as a minor being used.

Freddie's about equally interested in male and female partners, and doesn't really care one way or the other with trans or cis partners, but it would require some character development/reconstruction of his personal notions on gender for him to engage with somebody who is openly nonbinary. He doesn't really have any make-it-or-break-it physical preferences, but he finds androgyny (men with long hair/'feminine' clothing, butch dykes, etc) completely unappealing, and people with extensive body modding like piercings or characters who are model thin are unattractive enough to him for him to not want to engage. No xeno; near humans are a case-by-case basis for him.

Please note that flight crew are a hard no for him; he's very uncomfortable with that power dynamic and really doesn't like hearing about it from other pilots, either. Enlisted men and male officers he outranks during his military years come on a case-by-case basis, but it would take a lot for him to fuck someone in his direct chain of command. He'll have sex with women who outrank him, but will outright turn down any passes from enlisted women and female subordinates/female crew members and react with discomfort because he feels like the added element of gender in a male-dominated field puts them in a position where it's harder to say no. Flirtation from women hierarchically below him or on a crew he pilots will lead to negative CR and him avoiding them.

Freddie is pretty middle-of-the-line both when it comes to D/S and topping or bottoming; he's flexible depending on what his partners want, with the exception of oral sex, in which he really prefers to be on the receiving end of unless he's sucking the dick of someone he really likes because he has made the offer, not because he is responding to a request.

Freddie's ideal most of the time (but not every single time) is submissive topping—ride his dick, use him, etc... but in more of a soft domming way as opposed to being on the receiving end of roughness or degredation. He's happy to play the dominant role for uniform/rank play (he was a major), gunplay, etc, and the first time he engages with a woman, he usually does try to take a more dominant role because that's what society has told him he needs to do. Deep down, though? He really prefers girl-on-top, and he's a femdom enjoyer. He likes it when women take control and make him feel secure and wanted.

That's part of a recurrent theme - the degree to which Freddie is sexually active isn't just an effect of actual sex drive but is also a function of his need to seek affirmation and interpersonal closeness. Sex makes him feel desirable in a way he cannot intrinsically find and valued in a way that his upbringing didn't. It means someone is choosing to spend their time with him, only him, because they want him and find him attractive and are choosing to be with him in that moment over other people. He craves the warmth of human touch because it's about as much affection as he allows himself to receive, but any given hookup never fully meets that need because he wants consistent affection, which he also unfortunately fears, so he just keeps chasing it—with partner after partner after partner. He's lost count.

physical info.

Pulled from his character sheet for ease of access, appended with NSFW info.

Freddie stands at 6’ even, with a tidy general appearance and good posture, always clean-shaven; he looks a little older than he actually is, especially around the eyes, from a lot of direct sun exposure abroad near the equator and in the cockpit. He’s bilingual - fluent in French and English - but speaks French with a Quebecois dialect that is, for the most part, mutually intelligible with Parisian and African French speakers. He doesn’t have much of an accent or many regionalisms pinning him to any one part of the US, but a keen ear would be able to pin him as having a trace of New York State to his voice, diluted by assignments around the country during his ten years of active duty. He uses a trace of cologne, but not much, just enough to faintly pick up on when standing at the edge of his personal space. It wouldn't be fair to trap his copilot in the cockpit with that.

The great irony of his bulimia and issues with body image is that he’s not actually that overweight—he's only carrying some recent addition of 30 to 40 pounds and was slim to begin with before that—and his metabolic issues stem almost entirely from prolonged poor diet, not body fat. On the whole, he’s still built fairly narrow; due to a combination of heredity and insulin resistance, he carries almost all extra weight as abdominal fat, giving him the appearance of a mildish beer belly (think: six months pregnant or so) without actually having much softness to his face or hands, and only a slight thickness to his arms and thighs—a dadbod. That said, Freddie’s cheeks still look pretty full because of the swelling brought on by such frequent purging.

Most of the tooth decay and erosion he's built up over the past four months is only really visible if his mouth is wide open for inspection and someone knows what they're looking at—in which case, it's glaring. What's outwardly visible—say, as a smile of a little flash of teeth shows as he's talking—is a coffee drinker's mild discoloration and a peculiar translucence to the ends of his upper two central incisors. They lack the little bumps at the ends most people keep into middle age, and the tips are also almost chisel-shaped as opposed to blunt and of equal with all the way down.

Freddie's only physically identifying mark is a shallow, penny-sized indentation on the outer side of his right calf, smoother than the surrounding skin with no hair growth (though his body hair is already fairly light to begin with)—the scar from where a pea-sized piece of hard debris became embedded about a centimeter into his calf while he was standing in the shrapnel radius of an IS group mortar blast on the ground and subsequently had to have it surgically removed.

On the subject of body hair, there's not much: arms (mostly lower); legs; the center of his chest with a few strays across the collarbones; a few pale, sparse hairs under his navel. He shaves everything that would fall under the cover of his boxers (which he wears, not briefs), including his uppermost inner thighs, though it's not like there's much there to begin with. What remains is all a shade or so lighter the hair on his head, lightest blond on his arms, which at certain angles under certain lighting can give them the impression of having no hair at all.

He's uncut, above average without looking like a porn star. As someone who also likes dick, he thinks cut looks better, but he's also 33 and not about to let anyone get anywhere near his dick with a scalpel for simple aesthetic reasons, so it is what it is.

kinklist.
hover over * for more information; S = self ; P = partner ; G = giving ; R = receiving. if something's not listed, feel free to ask!

FAVES —

accidentally emotional sex, blowjobs (R), body worship/admiration (R), clothed sex, competence kink, crushes, dickriding (R), femdom, frottage, military kink, one night stands, possessiveness, praise kink (R), rankplay, risk of getting caught, submissive topping, sexual/romantic tension, uniforms

YES —

anal fingering (G/R), anal sex (G/R), awkward boners, drug use, drunk sex, failsex, gunplay (G), hair pulling, oral sex (G), pegging (R), promiscuity

MAYBE/DISCUSS FIRST—

aphro, bloodplay, breeding, feeding, oviposition, pregnancy, PIV*, religious play/sacrilege, voyeurism, watersports, weight gain, light (S), weight gain, any (P)

NO—

abdl, ageplay, age regression, birth/egglaying, bodily fluid play, bodyshaming/teasing/pigplay, dental anything, cumplay/cum marking, daddy/mommy kink, dubcon/noncon, exhibitionism, extreme bdsm, extreme weight gain, feet, inflation, knifeplay, polyamory, sexualized EDs, scat, shame/humiliation/degradation, subspace, skullfucking, threesomes/moresomes, underage, vore, xeno